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For the past three years, Christmas has held a very distinct significance for me: the end of the semester and a break from school. Sure there were decorations, and Christmas carols on the radio, and presents and parties, but more importantly, there were no exams to stress over, no research papers to stay up late to finish, and no heavy law books to haul to and from the library each day. By the time I had completed my final exams, I didn't care whether it was Christmas, or a random Tuesday in April, so long as it meant I got to sleep in and watch hours of bad reality television again. This year, I began to realize that I was having a very different reaction to Christmas than I had experienced in recent years. I noticed which Christmas carols were played most often on the radio. I took time to drive through my neighborhood, and Oglebay Park, and admire the wonderful light displays. I spent a few evenings writing Christmas cards to all of my friends and relatives. Christmas really became a season for me, rather than just a day of the year. And, in addition to my increased enjoyment of Christmas all around me, I felt compelled to celebrate the season in another way I had not done in years, by volunteering my time to share the holidays with others. Having only lived in Wheeling for a few months, I wasn't entirely sure where to go to share my Christmas spirit. I thought maybe I would just have to wait until I returned home to Michigan for Christmas, where I could accompany my mom to volunteer with some of the organizations in my hometown. Even though that is still something I am looking forward to doing over the holidays, I was also fortunate to find a fantastic opportunity to participate in Christmas giving right here in Wheeling. Linda Bordas invited me to join her, Linda Scaggs, and Jeanne Dedo on an annual Christmas shopping trip with children from a local school. We met the students, and some of their teachers and guidance counselors, at the school in the morning. I wasn't sure what to expect, but I could tell that all of the kids were excited as we boarded the school bus to head out. A bus driver, who was generously volunteering her time during the day, drove us to the St. Clairsville mall. Once we arrived, we were each paired with a student or two, and then given free reign to shop. I think I looked at almost every item in the store while shopping with these great kids, but I can safely say that the aisles housing electronics, videogames, candy and Steelers gear got the most attention. The students were each given a set amount that they could spend, and I was very impressed at how carefully they kept track of their purchases, adding and subtracting the cost of each item as they went. It was also touching to see the students search for special items for family members, or to substitute out an item they had selected for themselves after finding something that they knew their mother or a sibling would really love. It would have been very easy for these children to spend the entire amount on things they wanted, but each of them used careful consideration for their selections, and thought of others during the process. Is there anything that embodies the Christmas spirit more than that? Linda Bordas told the kids, both at the start and end of our day together, that this is her favorite day of the year, and I have to agree with her! I am truly appreciative of this opportunity, and hope to be able to participate in this annual event again in the future. I am blessed to have found a new meaning and appreciation for the Christmas season.

Plaid, stripes, sequins, lights, ornaments. Put them together and what do you get? The infamous and celebrated Ugly Christmas Sweater. How do we celebrate the travesties? By partaking in the annual Ugly Christmas Sweater party, of course! What was once considered an obscene taste in fashion has now become an acclaimed hit in workplaces and social gatherings around the world. Where did it all begin? Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada claims to be the birthplace of the first Ugly Christmas Sweater party in 2002. For more information, check out www.christmassweaterparty.com. Here are some more fun facts about the Ugly Christmas Sweater according to www.uglychristmassweater.com: Bill Cosby is considered the Father of the Ugly Christmas Sweater. Christmas sweaters were first mass manufactured under the name "Jingle Bell Sweaters". Celebrities known for wearing Ugly Christmas Sweaters include Colin Firth in Bridget Jones' Diary, Chevy Chase in National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation and, of course, Bill Cosby in The Cosby Show. National Ugly Christmas Sweater Day is celebrated December 20 th. Although it may be too late this year to flaunt all the ugly you can muster, you can prepare for next year's festivities by visiting sites such as www.myuglychristmassweater.com, www.uglysweaterstore.com, and www.thesweaterstore.com to purchase your unsightly sweater. As you've seen by now, Bordas & Bordas has already put on a wonderful display of sweaters of holiday horror. Thanks to all who voted for their favorite ugly sweater, all to the benefit of three worthy local charities: the Marshall County Animal Shelter, Tri-County Help Center and National Youth Advocate Program!

Christmas is quickly approaching, and between all the shopping, decorating, parties and baking, it recently hit me that this will be the first year I won't be in Wheeling with my family on Christmas day. Even though I'm excited to be spending the holiday with someone special to me and his family, knowing that I won't be "Home for the Holidays" this year has made me reflect on Christmases from my past. Of course, there are all the wonderful childhood memories I have, such as waking up to find that Santa brought me the most amazing Barbie Dream House or that  he delivered a teddy bear to Grandma and Grandpa's house for me, but it's the more recent Christmases that stand out to me now. In between the family traditions of Christmas Eve mass at St. Vincent's followed by the annual showing of National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation and even my brother always making breakfast Christmas morning, there are the Christmases that have marked my journey back home to Wheeling. I moved away more than eleven years ago, thinking that I'd never live in Wheeling again. Coming home for Christmas during my college years was always about having fun, catching up with my friends from high school and retelling stories about our days at Central that we've told a thousand times. It was Christmas of 006 when I realized those carefree days were coming to an end when I accepted a job in Charlotte, NC and moved four days after Christmas to start my post collegiate life. A year later, when I came home for Christmas for the first time after truly being away, I realized how much I missed and loved my hometown. It took another two years and a move to another state, but before I knew it, it was a few weeks before Christmas in 2009 and I was moving back up north. I spent the next three years living and working in Pittsburgh, PA, but still found myself longing for home, my little town in the heart of the Ohio Valley. So I decided to officially put my roots down in Wheeling and in what has seemingly become a pattern, I moved again just a few weeks before Christmas last year, but this time, into my first home in my hometown. Looking back, I love that such a wonderful time of year seems to have had a minor role in my journey back home. There have been a lot changes over the years and I have so many great memories of Christmas in Wheeling with my family and friends. I'm really looking forward to the new memories and traditions that I'll be making this Christmas.

This Christmas season, like every Christmas season, we are getting the chance to revisit the age-old conflict between those who say "Merry Christmas" and those who say "Happy Holidays." One's choice of holiday greeting can quickly become the subject of discussion, dispute, debate and finally fist fights and assaults. A few days ago, a Salvation Army Bell Ringer found herself physically assaulted for telling the wrong person "Happy Holidays." It should go without saying (but apparently it doesn't) that the hostility and attitude on display when it comes to "Merry Christmas"/"Happy Holidays" these days is not exactly in the Christmas spirit. Some people who say "Happy Holidays" are accused of trying to "take Christ out of Christmas," and some may well be, but many others might just be hoping to meet someone who celebrates Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Festivus, or even more controversial and/or fictitious holidays. Of course, the joke is always on the people who say happy holidays in an effort to take religion out of the equation. As our famous national physicist and astronomer, Neil deGrasse Tyson, recently pointed out via Twitter, the word "holidays" is derived from "holy days," and so, the supposedly secular "happy holiday" wishers are actually making a specific reference to the "reason for the season." Christmas warrior Bill O'Reilly would be calling the happy holidays crowd out for suckers if he could have gotten into Bronx Science alongside Tyson, but he was stuck at Chaminade. At the same time, some "Merry Christmas" wishers find themselves uttering the words "Merry Christmas" in an increasingly defiant and confrontational tone until it almost sounds like "Merry Christmas, d*** you!" That's getting a little further away yet from "peace on earth and goodwill to men." The Christian theologian, C.S. Lewis, reminded us in his masterful book, The Screwtape Letters, that one of the devil's favorite tricks was to stir up dispute, anger and even hatred between human beings over matters with as little significance as possible. He used the example of stirring up fights between Christians who prefer to say "Mass" and those who say "Holy Communion." The less there is at stake, the more pointlessly hostile and uncharitable the fights will be. The perpetual argument over Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays is very much in the spirit of what Lewis was talking about. Anyway, the whole thing is a distraction from the important things in life, such as who says "let's go Mountaineers," who says "let's go Pitt," and who says "let's go Irish." Now that's something worth getting into a solid fistfight about. Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Kwanzaa!, and Celebrate Festivus (with the rest of us), this Yule Season, America.

People often ask me what my favorite Christmas gift was when I was a kid. It's an easy call. There's not even a close second. My dog Pepper was the best. I don't exactly remember how old I was but I think I had to have been about six or seven. I ran down the steps to see what Santa had brought me. In my haste to get to the area by the tree in the far part of the family room, I sprinted past the couch to see what I got. When I was about four feet past the couch, I came to a sudden stop. I paused, turned around, and looked at the couch. There was the cutest English Springer Spaniel puppy you could ever imagine just sitting quietly on the couch. I looked at my mom and dad and asked, "Is he real?" They asked me what I thought. I quickly went over to pet him for the first time and realized that he was very real indeed as he wagged his tail at me. Pepper was the first of several Springer Spaniels that I had as a child. Some of the memories of things we did together have been lost with time. But, I will never forget that Christmas morning when I experienced the pure joy of getting to play with him for the first time. He was definitely the best.

Jamie Bordas, Chris Regan and Geoff Brown return this year with a full, hour-long college bowl season preview on the Bordas & Bordas Legal Review. Watch Wheeling Central Defensive Coordinator Jamie Bordas, former State Champion quarterback Geoff Brown and noted College Football Analyst Chris Regan break down the Bowl Championship Series matchups, the four non-BCS games you don't want to miss and make picks in every single bowl game this season. The BBLR Bowl Preview Show was filmed live before a packed TJ's Sports Garden and will air on WLUTV 14 throughout the holiday season. Click here to view the program on vimeo, or watch the embedded version if your browser supports it. Click this link: http://westliberty.edu/wltv/2011/08/03/wltvschedule/ to see the WLUTV schedule so you can view a live-stream of WLUTV and check this page for a schedule of when the program airs. Most important, see below for the key picks these experts have made, and check back often to see how they are stacking up with those picks as the games are played! GILDAN NEW MEXICO BOWL Game, Date and Time: Washington State v. Colorado State 12/21/13 at 1:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Washington State Geoff: Washington State Chris: Washington State ROYAL PURPLE LAS VEGAS BOWL Game, Date and Time: Fresno State v. USC 12/21/13 at 3:00 p.m. on ABC Picks: Jamie: Fresno State Geoff: Fresno State Chris: USC FAMOUS IDAHO POTATO BOWL Game, Date and Time: Buffalo v. San San Diego State 12/21/13 at 5:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: San Diego Geoff: San Diego Chris: San Diego R&L CARRIERS NEW ORLEANS BOWL Game, Date and Time: Tulane v. Louisiana-Lafayette 12/21/13 at 9:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: LA-Lafayette Geoff: LA-Lafayette Chris: Tulane BEEF 'O' BRADY'S BOWL ST. PETERSBURG Game, Date and Time: Ohio v. East Carolina 12/23/13 at 2:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: East Carolina Geoff: East Carolina Chris: East Carolina SHERATON HAWAII BOWL Game, Date and Time: Boise State v. Oregon State 12/24/13 at 8:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Oregon State Geoff: Boise State Chris: Oregon State LITTLE CAESAR'S BOWL Game, Date and Time: Pittsburgh v. Bowling Green 12/26/13 at 6:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Bowling Green Geoff: Bowling Green Chris: Bowling Green SAN DIEGO COUNTY CREDIT UNION POINSETTIA BOWL Game, Date and Time: Utah State v. Northern Illinois 12/26/13 at 9:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Northern Illinois Geoff: Northern Illinois Chris: Northern Illinois MILITARY BOWL - PRES. BY NORTHROP GRUMMAN Game, Date and Time: Marshall v. Maryland 12/27/13 at 2:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Maryland Geoff: Maryland Chris: Maryland TEXAS BOWL Game, Date and Time: Syracuse v. Minnesota 12/27/13 at 6:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Minnesota Geoff: Minnesota Chris: Minnesota FIGHT HUNGER BOWL Game, Date and Time: Brigham Young v. Washington 12/27/13 at 9:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: BYU Geoff: BYU Chris: BYU NEW ERA PINSTRIPE BOWL Game, Date and Time: Rutgers v. Notre Dame 12/28/13 at 12:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Notre Dame Geoff: Notre Dame Chris: Notre Dame BELK BOWL Game, Date and Time: Cincinnati v. North Carolina 12/28/13 at 3:20 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: North Carolina Geoff: North Carolina Chris: North Carolina RUSSELL ATHLETIC BOWL Game, Date and Time: Miami (FL) v. Louisville 12/28/13 at 6:45 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Louisville Geoff: Louisville Chris: Louisville BUFFALO WILD WINGS BOWL Game, Date and Time: Michigan v. Kansas State 12/28/13 at 10:15 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Michigan Geoff: Kansas State Chris: Kansas State BELL HELICOPTER ARMED FORCES BOWL Game, Date and Time: Middle Tennessee v. Navy 12/30/13 at 11:45 a.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Navy Geoff: Navy Chris: Navy FRANKLIN AMERICAN MORTGAGE MUSIC CITY BOWL Game, Date and Time: Ole Miss v. Georgia Tech 12/30/13 at 3:15 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Ole Miss Geoff: Georgia Tech Chris: Georgia Tech VALERO ALAMO BOWL Game, Date and Time: Oregon v. Texas 12/30/13 at 6:45 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Oregon Geoff: Oregon Chris: Oregon NATIONAL UNIVERSITY HOLIDAY BOWL Game, Date and Time: Arizona State v. Texas Tech 12/30/13 at 10:15 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Arizona State Geoff: Arizona State Chris: Arizona State ADVOCARE V100 BOWL Game, Date and Time: Arizona v. Boston College 12/31/13 at 12:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Arizona Geoff: Arizona Chris: Arizona HYUNDAI SUN BOWL Game, Date and Time: Virginia Tech v. UCLA 12/31/13 at 2:00 p.m. on CBS Picks: Jamie: UCLA Geoff: UCLA Chris: UCLA AUTOZONE LIBERTY BOWL Game, Date and Time: Rice v. Mississippi State 12/31/13 at 4:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Mississippi State Geoff: Mississippi State Chris: Mississippi State CHICK-FIL-A BOWL Game, Date and Time: Duke v. Texas A&M 12/31/13 at 8:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Texas A&M Geoff: Texas A&M Chris: Texas A&M TAXSLAYER.COM GATOR BOWL Game, Date and Time: Nebraska v. Georgia 01/01/14 at 12:00 p.m. on ESPN2 Picks: Jamie: Georgia Geoff: Georgia Chris: Georgia HEART OF DALLAS BOWL - PRES. BY PLAINSCAPITAL BANK Game, Date and Time: UNLV v. North Texas 01/01/14 at 12:00 p.m. on ESPNU Picks: Jamie: Texas Geoff: Texas Chris: Texas CAPITAL ONE BOWL Game, Date and Time: Wisconsin v. South Carolina 01/01/14 at 1:00 p.m. on ABC Picks: Jamie: South Carolina Geoff: Wisconsin Chris: South Carolina OUTBACK BOWL Game, Date and Time: Iowa v. LSU 01/01/14 at 1:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: LSU Geoff: LSU Chris: LSU ROSE BOWL Game, Date and Time: Stanford v. Michigan State 01/01/14 at 5:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Stanford Geoff: Stanford Chris: Michigan State TOSTITOS FIESTA BOWL Game, Date and Time: UCF v. Baylor 01/01/14 at 8:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Baylor Geoff: Baylor Chris: Baylor ALLSTATE SUGAR BOWL Game, Date and Time: Oklahoma v. Alabama 01/02/14 at 8:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Alabama Geoff: Alabama Chris: Alabama AT&T COTTON BOWL Game, Date and Time: Oklahoma State v. Missouri 01/03/14 at 7:30 p.m. on FOX Picks: Jamie: Missouri Geoff: Missouri Chris: Oklahoma State DISCOVER ORANGE BOWL Game, Date and Time: Clemson v. Ohio State 01/03/14 at 8:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Ohio State Geoff: Clemson Chris: Ohio State BBVA COMPASS BOWL Game, Date and Time: Vanderbilt v. Houston 01/04/14 at 1:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Vanderbilt Geoff: Vanderbilt Chris: Vanderbilt GODADDY BOWL Game, Date and Time: Arkansas State v. Ball State 01/05/14 at 9:00 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Ball State Geoff: Ball State Chris: Ball State BCS NATIONAL CHAMPIONSHIP Game, Date and Time: Florida State v. Auburn 01/06/14 at 8:30 p.m. on ESPN Picks: Jamie: Auburn Geoff: Florida State Chris: Auburn

From Barley and Guinness (with some help from our dog mom, Jeanne) As we prepare for the Christmas time events, we who have pets must try to remember that this can be a dangerous time for our pets. Trees, lights and decorations can be a temptation to our four-legged friends. While putting up a tree over the years, I've learned not to put too many decorations on the bottom of the tree as tails and claws can easily knock them off. If ornaments are broken and eaten, they can cause great harm to pets! Poinsettias and chocolate are very poisonous to our pets as well! If they eat a leaf or get into the candy bowl, dogs and cats can become very ill (sometimes even resulting in death) if proper treatment is not given immediately. I know from our dogs Barley and Guinness that they will try to get their paws on anything and everything they can! Our dogs' adventurous appetites can cause great problems this time of year. Our dog mom tries (the key word being "tries") not to feed us any table foods, but when she has a house full of company and we (Barley & Guinness) are so dog-darn cute, some people can't help but give us something off their plates. Mom tries to watch this all year, but at this time of year it's hard! She does, however, set dog treats out for us so if someone just has to give us something they can give us what we get on a daily basis so it doesn't upset our stomachs. Yes, she limits the treats we get. She is strict with us but she is a caring and loving dog mom. Cleaning up a mess from us can be avoided if our guests don't feed us their rich foods from their plates! Also, as the weather turns colder outside please make sure to bring your pets inside if you can. If you can't, please make sure they have a proper shelter where they can get away from the elements of the outdoor winter weather. Fresh water and food are very important this time of year. Water freezes very fast in the cold, so please check on the water situation often. Also, please remember if it is too cold for you to stay outside it is too cold for our pets too! Although they may have a fur coat, that can only help so much! So please, if you can, get your pets inside for the night or make sure they have extra blankets, straw or hay and that they can get inside a doghouse or someplace out of the harsh weather. Keeping our four-legged friends warm, dry and safe this time of year is just as important as it is when they are left out in the heat of summer. So from all of us at Bordas & Bordas we wish you and your pets a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! As always, "Adopt Don't Shop." Bark on Bordas Dog Nation, Bark on. Barley & Guinness

Insomnia sucks. Well, for the most part it does but lying awake and contemplating life and all its nuances does have its advantages. Last night, as I turned off the TV, hell bent on not allowing myself to watch yet another consecutive episode of Duck Dynasty, I thought about my life. I've been doing that a lot lately. Things I'd change. Things I would do differently. Things I'm so thankful for. As I lay there, I thought about the things I wish I could tell my younger self and things that I hope that I can teach my own children. I made a list. And for those who know me, they know that when I have important stuff to say it often comes out as a list (just so you don't miss anything, ya know?) So here it is. My advice to the younger me and the real-life younger me's that I've been entrusted to raise as good, kind, productive human beings. Drum roll please... 1. Don't be Fake. Be your genuine self. It wasn't until I meandered my way out of my 20s and was well into my 30s until I fully realized that I needed to stop pretending to be something I was not. I didn't need to impress anyone and who I was, as a person, was just fine. My job, my house, my income did not define who I was and the people who would love me, would love me regardless of all of these things. The acceptance that not everyone is going to like you and that you can't be all things to all people is frankly liberating. 2. Practice self and situational awareness. Along with being true to yourself comes knowing your own capabilities and your shortcomings. Self-awareness is a gift that comes when you know yourself well enough to make accurate decisions based upon what is. Situational awareness will allow you to frame your behavior contextually. From relationships to business ventures, there is no aspect of your life in which this will not be useful. 3. Surround yourself with people smarter than you. My mentor, friend and now colleague Rob Vandine told me this very early in my career. His advice not only allows others to shine, but provides you exposure to ideas and thoughts that come from the collaboration of great minds. A rising tide lifts all boats...so having people around you that are smarter will not make you look inferior, it will make everyone perform better. Recognize intelligence and realize that it takes way more than a piece of paper to make someone smart. 4. Give a sh*t. Care. Really allow yourself to have empathy for others and care enough to make a difference. Explore feelings from a point of view other than your own. And don't underestimate the value of a good, appropriately placed hug. 5. Be honest. It really is the best policy. Being honest is not always easy, but it is always right. Lying hurts and the truth will always emerge. Honesty is a fundamental principle that is the foundation for effective relationships in every aspect of life. Honesty will allow you to make decisions based upon a foundation of truth versus quicksand of lies. 6. Listen. There is no coincidence that listen and silent have the same letters. Listening is a gift that you give other people. It is more than hearing, it is processing in a way that allows understanding. Listen. And you will learn more and your interactions will be so much more meaningful. 7. Be accountable. When you screw up, own it. When you promise something, deliver. When you say something, mean it. 8. Don't be so serious. Be silly. Or Weird. Or do something random. Play pranks and have fun. Life is way too short to be serious all the time. Play loud music. Go to the movies as much as humanly possible. Laugh. A lot. 9. Have a good handshake. Seriously. Don't be wimpy. I can't tell you how many times I've been praised for having a good handshake. So, man, woman, child or otherwise, shake hands like you mean it. Oh, and while you're at it look people in the eye. It makes a difference. 10. Use your manners. Make please and thank you part of your everyday conversation. Hold the door for someone. Write a thank you note. Not an email, an honest to goodness thank you on paper with a pen. Mail it. Yes, with a stamp. 11. Give without expectation. If you can help someone do it. Give to others without the expectation that you will get anything in return. Be generous with what you have. Always. 12. Be kind. People will always, always remember how you made them feel. Just be nice. Sometimes be nice anonymously just to do it...you don't always need acknowledgement to make someone's day brighter. 13. Under promise and over deliver. Many times people make the mistake of doing the opposite; they promise exceptional things and then fall short. Be realistic, set expectations and then blow their mind. 14. Be extraordinary. Good enough is no longer good enough. Don't be okay with the status quo. Push yourself beyond your boundaries and your comfort zone. Find something you are good at and then become great. Everyone has something. Find it and use it to become part of who you are. If you are going to be a widget maker, be the best damn widget maker this world has ever seen. 15. Pick your battles. Not every argument is worth winning. Decide which hill you want to die on and don't engage in disputes that at the end of the day, in a week, a month or five years just won't be worth it. Oh, and fight fair. Don't bring up garbage that doesn't matter. 16. Trust your gut. Your instincts are probably right. Don't try and talk yourself out of what you likely already know. 17. Show respect. To those older, those younger, those wiser, those struggling, those winning and losing. Show respect. Period. 18. Never pass up an opportunity to learn something new. Be a lifelong student and you will have some of the best conversations of your life. Learn from books, learn from others, learn from experiences, learn from Wikipedia. It doesn't matter. Just never stop learning. 19. Sometimes life sucks. It's true. And it's going to kick you in the gut more than once. Reality isn't always pretty or what you want. But with every challenge comes a lesson and when you look back on the hard times, each is simply a season moving you forward to another chapter in your life. Understand that when life stinks a) there are people that have it worse than you do and b) things will get better. They always do. Like Winston Churchill said, if you are going through hell, keep going. You'll come out on the other side. I promise. 20. Seek out the positive. Maybe it's 20 years in public relations and sales, or maybe it is just how I'm wired but there is tremendous benefit of putting a positive spin on your life. There is always something to look forward to, to focus on, to bring you to the light at the end of the tunnel. And if you can't see it, ask someone else. Sometimes when you are at your lowest point it is difficult to see the blessings that are right in front of your face. And when you finally do see them, count them...and all of a sudden things just seem to suck just a little bit less. 21. Forgive. Forgiveness is a gift that you give not only the person who fell short but also to yourself. Harboring anger is not healthy and the greatest achievement is forgiving and accepting an apology that you may never hear. And, when the time comes, forgive yourself for falling short of your own expectations. 22. Take a stand. For something. Anything. Be passionate and defend what you believe in. With that being said, don't shove your beliefs onto others. There is certainly a way to have firm beliefs without flaunting your opinions and shoving them down people's throats. Respect that others may take just as hard of a stand on the opposite side. Different opinions. It's what makes this world interesting. 23. Appreciate true friends. In the world of hundreds of virtual friendships that manifest themselves online, be thankful for the true friends that really have your back. The ones you can call at 3 am. The ones that will listen to your problems over and over and over and act as if they are hearing them for the first time. The ones who give you advice you probably should take but won't. If you have one you are lucky...a handful? You are incredibly blessed. 24. Dream big. It is absolutely never too late to chase a dream. So many amazing people are stifled by their own insecurities. What if I fail? What if it doesn't work? What if....Forget what if and just do it. Will it be more difficult? Maybe. Will it be worth it? Absolutely. 25. Consider what marriage means. In a time when more than 50% end in divorce, sincerely consider what you are signing up for. Marriage is hard freaking work. Consider that when you have children that they, too, will be impacted by your decisions. They will look at your actions as a framework for their own future relationships. Take your vows seriously and nurture your relationship with your spouse. And if you don't marry your best friend...don't get married. Oh, and if you can't stay faithful, stay single. Your spouse isn't a car that you trade in when it gets old or you get bored or annoyed. 26. Practice saying no. Sometimes it is ok to say no. You can decline an invitation without being rude, pass up a job because it wasn't a good fit, say no when someone asks for something that you can't realistically provide. It is perfectly okay to say no. 27. Have adventures. When you get unique opportunities take them. Go to places you've never been and do things you've never done before. Be spontaneous. You will never, ever regret these types of experiences. 28. Be fearless. Don't protect yourself from sadness because by doing so you may just end up missing out on tremendous happiness. Live with tremendous courage even when you are scared. More often than not the reward is worth the risk you take. 29. Share with others the things you think are extraordinary about who they are. Compliment others...about their talents, their personality, their resilience, heck, compliment them on their choice of perfume or how their jeans make their butt look good. It doesn't matter...when you think a compliment, say it. It means more than you know. 30. Love without condition. The greatest love you can give anyone is that of unconditional acceptance of who they are. Love with all of your heart, without reservation and never pass up the opportunity to tell someone how much they mean to you. Life is fleeting. Figure out what selfless love really means and offer that to another.

Pappy rarely left the Wheeling area. Other than when he was in the army, he only traveled outside of the Wheeling area to visit my aunt and cousins in Arizona or pick them up from the Pittsburgh airport when they would come to visit. During one of his last visits to Arizona, they took a brief trip to Las Vegas and, while there, visited Caesars Palace which had live camels on display that day. To put it mildly, the live camels amazed him. Well, the following Christmas my mother found a four-foot tall stuffed camel at a local hobby shop while Christmas shopping. That camel was my grandfather's Christmas gift that year and became my grandfather's favorite gift ever not only because of its meaning to his heritage, but because of the joy he experienced playing with his grandchildren and that silly camel. My cousins, Krista and Kellie, now each the mother of two, were little and named the camel Carmen. We have no idea where they came up with that name, but Pappy was not going to change it. I can remember the joy on his face while they dressed her up and played with her. We lost my grandfather to lung cancer a few years after Carmen joined our family. She went to live with my cousins after his death, eventually retiring to my aunt's attic once the kids lost interest in her. One thing was for certain though, she was never going to leave our family. I was supposed to take custody of her while I was living in Charleston, but she never made the trip. She recently came out of her retirement home to help my aunt celebrate "hump day" at her office. Instead of going back to her former-retirement home, Carmen came to live with me and is currently keeping me company in my office and reminding me of what Christmas really means. Christmas is not about shopping and parties and gifts. Christmas is about family and memories of times past and beloved family members lost. While I think of Pappy daily and miss him more than anyone could imagine, Christmas-time brings special memories. I only spent one Christmas away from my grandfather while he was on earth. That year, my  grandparents decided to spend Christmas with my cousins, Travis and Chad, in Arizona and I was, to put it mildly, devastated. On Christmas Eve my mom told me I could call my grandfather to get his special salad dressing recipe while she ran an errand. She was gone for about two hours. Imagine her surprise when she got a long-distance phone bill for the entire time she was out when the call shouldn't have taken longer than 5 minutes. If I couldn't be with Pappy, I was going to talk to him as long as I could. I will also never forget my first attempt to bake Christmas cookies on my own. My snickerdoodles came out hard as a rock and were virtually inedible. Pappy, however, ate every single one because I had made them. Pappy also had a way of sneaking away after Christmas Eve dinner to help make Santa's job that night a little easier. Pappy would do anything in his power for his grandchildren and loved them more than words can express. I was the most fortunate of my cousins because of the length of time I had with Pappy and the amount of time we spent together. Because he had just retired, he became my primary after-school caregiver when I started school. We lost Pappy the November after my high school graduation. My youngest cousin was not even an idea at the time and his sister was only six-months old. I hate the fact that half of my cousins have only vague, if any, memories of him but I know without a doubt that he is bursting with pride watching them from heaven. My mother and I talk often about what he would have thought of his grandchildren's accomplishments and activities. That first-generation American who worked as a laborer the majority of his life has nine grandchildren, all of whom have graduated (or will soon graduate) from college, several with post-graduate degrees. He already has eight great-grandchildren who, if early signs are any indication, will  far exceed the accomplishments of the earlier generation. His legacy lives on in his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren all of whom, whether they know it or not, mimic him in their ideals, values and actions. Carmen, the Christmas Camel, is a symbol of my grandfather, his strength, his integrity and his legacy. She reminds us of what is important - family, honesty, integrity, hard work and valuing the simple things in life. I feel honored to have been entrusted with her care and will make sure she is around for the Joseph family's future generations so they can know Michael Nimon Joseph. While she will eventually go home with me, she is hanging out at Bordas & Bordas for a little while reminding me of my grandfather and the values he held dear and reminding all of us of the values we should strive to implement daily. (Plus, she's looking forward to the perfect opportunity to help Bordas & Bordas celebrate "hump day.")

While oil and natural gas operations reaching and producing from the Marcellus and Utica Shales may be relatively new, oil and gas operations have been conducted in the Ohio Valley for many generations. Our grandparents and great-grandparents often signed leases for the oil and gas underlying their property many years ago. What do those old leases mean to you today, now that you and your generation owns the property? As you can imagine, those old oil and gas leases provided monetary terms that are much less than the monies being paid under newer deep well oil and gas leases. They typically provided for 12.5% royalty payments as opposed to the 18-20+% royalty rates that many are producers are agreeing to pay today. Those old leases typically reached only shallow sandstone deposits because the technology simply did not exist to reach the deeper shale plays. How has the horizontal drilling revolution affected your rights under those old shallow well leases? What are your rights with regard to those old leases? Is production still occurring from those old wells? What should you do if an oil and gas operator approaches you about signing a ratification or amended agreement? These are all issues of concern that you should be aware of. An oil and gas lease typically has a primary term (usually some set period of months or years) followed by a secondary term (which could last for many decades). If a well is drilled and gas is produced during the primary term of a lease, the lease will generally extend into the secondary term so long as gas production and/or other appropriate operations might continue. Important questions with regard to shallow oil and gas wells drilled under old leases include whether such wells have continued to produce over the years and how much of the property that you own is held by that production. The West Virginia Department of Environmental Protection and the Ohio Department of Natural Resources have several tools to help us to identify the history of oil and gas wells including historical production numbers. We can review the history of particular wells and see if, indeed, there has been continuous production from wells such that the secondary term of an old oil and gas lease might remain in effect. If there have been periods of non-production, arguments can be made that the lease is no longer valid and you, as the landowner, may be entitled to a cancellation of the lease and the right to go out and re-lease your property to another producer. It is also possible that while production and royalty payments may have continued, certain portions of your property should nonetheless be partially released from old ineffective leases. For example, if you have 100 acres of property subject to an older oil and gas lease and there is only one producing well on the property, does that one producing well hold the entire 100 acres? Despite what the oil and gas operator might be telling you, it may not. The laws of most states read into oil and gas leases certain obligations on the part of the producer. Those obligations become a part of your oil and gas lease because the ultimate goal of such leases is to protect the production interest of both the producer and the royalty holder. A lessor under an oil and gas lease typically has an implied obligation/covenant to reasonably develop the property. That essentially means that the oil and gas producer has a duty to do what is reasonable to ensure that the royalty interests are maximized. In many circumstances, one shallow well on 100 acres is not sufficient to reasonably develop the entire 100 acre tract. It is much more likely that only 20-40 acres are effectively being drained and produced. In those cases, additional wells would serve to ensure the full and complete production of the 100 acre tract. If the oil and gas producer has not reasonably attempted to develop the remaining acreage, it could be determined that the acreage beyond the one well that was drilled is no longer subject to the lease. While the acreage associated with the producing well would still be subject to the old lease, the remaining property would be free. Many people who have properties subject to old shallow well oil and gas leases have been approached over the last few years by companies seeking to have them execute Ratification and/or Amendment documents. Companies owing or buying those old leases want to expand their production from the existing shallow wells into the deeper shale plays where the money is currently being made. Because the technology associated with deep horizontal drilling is still relatively new, the majority of the old shallow well leases did not address an important issue necessary for horizontal drilling units. Old shallow well leases rarely had pooling or unitization language in them. Marcellus and Utica wells are much bigger than the old shallow wells. They can effectively drain potentially a thousand plus acres of land from one well pad. Without the right to pool your oil and gas acreage with the surrounding acreage, it makes it difficult and probably cost prohibitive to reach the deeper shale gas. If you have an old oil and gas well on your property, don't just trust the gas company when it tells you that it still holds the property. You may be entitled to negotiate a new lease for substantially higher upfront money and better royalty rates as well. Even if the land is partially held by an older oil and gas lease, you might have a significant amount of bargaining power to better your terms and gain more protection for your property. Bordas & Bordas is actively involved in this oil and gas related work and we look forward to working with those people who want to fully investigate their potential oil and gas rights. This article is for informational purposes only and not for the purpose of providing legal advice. You should contact an attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular issue or problem. Use of and access to this website or any of the links contained within the site do not create an attorney-client relationship between Bordas & Bordas and the user or browser.

Around this time of year, you see commercials, signs and billboards that say "Keep Christ in Christmas." After all, the whole reason for the season is Jesus, the Son of God, coming to earth to save the sinner - each of us - from our sins, offering the only way of salvation, and giving the greatest love story ever told. The reason He came was His love for you and me. Unfortunately, Christmas has become so unbelievably commercialized that most of our society has forgotten this. Stores now compete to offer the best Black Friday sales on Thursday and Christmas trees are on display in August beside backpacks and back-to-school specials. Is this really how far we have strayed from the purpose of this time of celebration? Take time this Christmas season, and all year round, to stop and remember why we celebrate. We celebrate Jesus Christ, the Creator of the universe and the Author of salvation, leaving all the glories of Heaven to come and save us from an eternity without Him. He came so that He could die for our sins at Calvary and offer eternal salvation for those who are willing to receive it. He came because He loves you and me. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. -Romans 8:38-39 (NIV)

You can imagine all of the preparations that would have to be made if the President visited your hometown. Naturally, the President would require the best accommodations including a plush hotel, food, and all of the amenities. Transportation would have to be provided. Security would obviously be a major concern. So would crowd control. Why? Because where the President goes, so does his entourage, the press and, of course, thousands upon thousands of onlookers. But the situation was very different 2,000 years ago. In a tiny Near Eastern village an even greater dignitary arrived for a visit--God's own son, Jesus. But he didn't come with all of the trappings of wealth and prestige. Far from it. Instead of a five-star hotel room, he came to a cold, drafty stable. Instead of a bed, he was given a feeding trough. Instead of blankets, he was kept warm with strips of cloth. Was he greeted by throngs of admirers and onlookers? Not exactly. Even though he was the King of Kings, he didn't draw a crowd. There was no press or paparazzi. Wealthy and powerful men didn't line the streets to shake his hand or bend his ear. In fact, the only visitors he had were shepherds from the fields outside of the village--ordinary men who were given an extraordinary opportunity to see the newborn king with their own eyes. It's fitting that Jesus came as he did. What message would it send if the Savior had been born in a palace or in a fine, rich home? Jesus came to offer hope and salvation to everyone. Think of it. Rich or poor, nobleman or commoner. The coming of the King of Kings broke through all of these barriers. In the coming weeks you'll probably see countless nativities. Don't just pass them by. Stop and look at the surroundings--the stable, the manger, the shepherds peering intently at the newborn baby boy. And as you look, remember that he chose to come to such a humble place as proof that his love can reach anyone, anywhere, anytime! From all of us at Bordas & Bordas, have a blessed and joy-filled Christmas season!