The Importance of Asking
Recently, I found myself reminded of an extremely important fact of life - unless you ask, the answer will always be 'no.'
When I began the spring semester this year, I set a goal to reach a 4.0 GPA. I was determined to reach it. Throughout the entirety of the semester, I spent an appreciable amount of time writing papers and proofreading them weeks (sometimes months) before they were due. I honestly put in full effort. Most of my peers viewed me as 'crazy' for writing so early and preparing for finals that seemed so far away. However, I knew that by doing this, I could spend finals week somewhat more relaxed than the rest, and I could have more confidence in knowing I tried my very best.
After finals week was over, I felt satisfied with my efforts and assumed I had my 4.0 in the bag. Unfortunately, on one of my many times checking my grade report online, I was surprised to see that I had received an A- in one class. All of the rest were A’s, as expected. This left me at a 3.93 GPA. Disappointed and carrying the knowledge that the grading system wouldn't be closed for another 48 hours, I contemplated my next move, whether it be acceptance of reaching out to my professor explaining why I felt I deserve an A, no minus. I wrestled with what I would do. So, I decided to ask my parents and a couple of close friends. The advice given to me by everyone I asked was unanimous. Everyone seemed to have the idea that a 3.93 was a GPA to take pride in and to try harder next time. I reluctantly accepted this, although it still did not sit well with me whatsoever.
The next day, I started my second summer interning with Bordas & Bordas. I had a great first day back. I quit thinking about my semester of school that had just occurred, putting my disappointment aside, and I began setting my sights into the future, on next semester's classes, where I would end up going to law school, etc. During my busy, productive day back, I received an email from Jamie inviting all staff to attend an event after work at Undo's. I was eager to go and interact with coworkers I hadn't had a chance to reconnect with from months ago. At Undo's I had the chance to chat with Jim Bordas. I talked to him about my GPA and how I was not satisfied with it. He expressed the same type of feeling as I had previously. He gave me the advice I had been seeking all along, to reach out to my professor so that he might change it so I could get what I deserve. Later when I got time to myself the next morning, I composed a very direct, thoughtful email that clearly explained my thoughts and reasoning as to why I deserve an A.
I was pleasantly surprised to get a response back within the hour, agreeing with my argument. My grade was changed, easy as that. I had earned my 4.0. I felt victorious. I take this as an important lesson to never take no as an answer, and be strong in every conviction held. Sometimes, it is not enough to try your complete best; an extra push is needed. Even if I would have been rejected, the answer would have been 'no' in the first place. This can definitely be applied in every aspect of life. I will always keep this in mind.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky
